
Pet Loss: How to Grieve
The death of a pet can be a child’s first real experience of grief and loss. It is important to approach this tender time with gentle, applicable tools that can help the child process healthily. Below is a list of ways a child can memorialize the loss of a pet.
1. Create a Memory Book: Help the child make a scrapbook or memory book filled with photos, drawings, and written memories of their pet.
2. Plant a Tree or Flower: Planting a tree or flower in memory of their pet can serve as a living tribute and provide a special place for the child to remember their furry friend.
3. Make a Paw Print Keepsake: Use non-toxic paint to create a paw print impression of their pet on paper or in clay, which they can keep as a memento.
4. Write a Letter: Encourage the child to write a letter to their pet, expressing their feelings and memories. They can keep the letter in a special box or release it in a balloon ceremony.
5. Hold a Memorial Service: Organize a small memorial service or ceremony where the child can share stories and memories of their pet with family and friends.
6. Donate to an Animal Charity: Suggest making a donation to an animal charity or shelter in honor of their pet, helping other animals in need.
7. Create a Memory Box: Gather items that remind the child of their pet, such as a collar, toys, or a favorite blanket, and place them in a special memory box.
8. Write a Poem or Story: Encourage the child to write a poem or story about their pet, capturing their personality and the special moments they shared.
9. Design a Memorial Stone: Help the child decorate a stone with their pet's name and date of passing, which they can place in their garden or a special spot outdoors.
Honor the memory of your pet
Books to help process the loss of a pet
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Goodbye Mousie by Robie H. Harris | pk-3rd
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When A Pet Dies by Fred Rogers | pk-1st
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The Tenth Good Thing About Barney by Judith Viorst | 1st-3rd
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Sammy In The Sky by Barbara Walsh | k-5th
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The Day Tiger Rose Said Goodbye by Jane Yolen | k-3rd
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I’ll Always Love You by Hans Wilhelm | pk-2nd
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Dog Heaven by Cynthia Rylant | k-4th
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Cat Heaven by Cynthia Rylant | k-4th